The kind of bra my partner wears is very important to me. While I love her when she is wearing anything (or nothing!), I love knowing that my wife is wearing a nursing bra. I can't stop thinking about how intentionally available she is prepared to be. That she wears a bra designed for easy access to her nipples and milk-filled breasts, all just for me, is intensely erotic. When she does, I just can't stop wondering when she'll ask me to sit down with her, open her shirt, undo a snap, and offer me one of her leaking nipples.

She knows that wearing one all the time (although she's perfectly willing, were I to ask) would diminish it's impact. For example, we might be home all day and she'll just be wearing a sports bra under a T-shirt. But then we'll get ready to go out, maybe to a movie, and she'll change into a nursing bra - that electrifies me, because I know she'll be hoping we can nurse somewhere while we're out.

She shops for all kinds of bras, and is always on the look-out for new styles. She knows I love them all, but I particularly like the white, utilitarian kind of nursing bra that offers a lot of support and padding, with strong, wide straps and a lot of hooks in the front and back, etc. If she wears one of these under a T-shirt, it's very obvious that it's a nursing bra. She's just slightly exhibitionistic about that, which also thrills me. Strangely, people often look, but they never ask.

If she wears one of the "special" utilitarian nursing bras around home, it usually means we're scheduling seriously long and frequent nursing sessions. These are usually lazy Sundays or other times, when perhaps we haven't been nursing as often for a while due to our busy lives, and we need to "catch up." So by mutual, unspoken agreement, we'll spend as much time in our arms as we can close together, talking, touching, sometimes quietly nursing, maybe making love, on-and-off all through the day.

Sometimes I'll ask to nurse, but more often I leave the scheduling to her, since she's obviously more in tune with her "condition," as we call the state of her breasts. Also, I consider the act as very giving on her part, and so I figure she should have more choice in the matter. So sometimes she'll be tired and not want to bother, and other times, she'll need it more than I do, and I try to adapt to her needs. Sometimes she plays "games," such as skipping pumping during the day while I'm at work, so that her breasts will grow full and hard with her milk. When she does this, she'll usually call and let me know that I have "a job to be done as soon as you get home!" That makes it easier to sit through an irritating meeting, I can tell you!

When we nurse, sometimes I like to cup her breast as I suckle, and other times I like it when she holds her breast out to me. Sometimes I like it when her other breast is still inside her clothing, laying in wait, and other times I like it when it's jutting out. If we're in bed, we have a few positions that allow us to make gentle love while nursing, which is always a special time.