Kellie’s Experience by DrJim

Kellie’s Experience

My name is Kellie. I am 28 years old and living with my boyfriend. We are in a committed long-term relationship although we have not formally married. We have been together for 3 years. I am a 5 foot 7 brunette, a fairly big girl and currently about 35 to 40 pounds overweight. I had a baby recently and haven’t been able to loose the weight yet. I have a regular job working in an office so I planned to place Kate in daycare as soon as possible so I can continue with my present job.

My pregnancy went fine and I delivered without any problems. I decided I would not breastfeed as that would be difficult with my job and I was generally not interested in doing so. After the birth my milk came in and I wore tight bras and used ice packs to get them to dry up. It took a couple of weeks. The doctor told me I could not have sex until after my 6-week checkup. I did not let my boyfriend touch me that whole time. My 6-week check up went fine and we had sex the same day I got the green light from the doctor. At this point my breasts were at least a cup larger than before my pregnancy. Although my breasts had dried up my nipples and areolas were dark and big. My boyfriend was completely fascinated with my breasts and suckled me a lot whenever we would have sex. To be honest, I love having sex and we do practically every day but there is a little problem that I will get to in a minute.

I had never heard of an Adult nursing relationship. The idea to me seemed a bit odd and I have actually wondered if I would be considered “normal” participating in this with my boyfriend. When we started having sex again after my 6-week checkup my boyfriend suckled on my breasts in the morning and evening and other times when he could. The surprising result was that my milk has come back in full force and I find myself breastfeeding my boyfriend regularly at least two to three times a day. He is getting a lot of milk from me and if I do not breastfeed him my breasts will feel very uncomfortable and full. I feel like he is getting as much milk as Kate would be getting if she were breastfeeding. My boyfriend loves this predicament we are in. He loves my breasts full of milk and I do love all the attention he has been giving me. I feel a little guilty though like we are abnormal and I don’t want to tell my friends what is going on.

The problem that I have is this; I love having sex, but I have been having difficulty getting wet when we have sex. My desire is strong and I get excited, but my body down there seems to be a bit slow to respond. I would like to know what I could do to fix this problem. It wasn’t like this before I had Kate. I do admit I enjoy breastfeeding my boyfriend in a strange way. So that is my experience. At this point I am not sure what I am going to do in the future.

Kellie’s experience illustrates the post-partum hormonal state, which is one of low Estrogen and high Prolactin. This state can last from one month to more than a year, primarily depending on breastfeeding, which prolongs it.

DrJim

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