|
Wet-Nursing
Author:
Sal
Lactation
Consultant, Researcher, Herbalist, Nutritionist
naturalchoiceee@yahoo.com
DISCLAIMER: The
following is a brief write up of my personal
experience on the subject of human lactation
along with a collection of others who have made
contributions in this area.
This is not
intended as medical advice in any way, shape or
form. Please seek competent medical advice for
your personal situation.
- Sal

FEW
ARE the days that go by that I don't hear these
words spoken to me;
"My
breasts ache ooohhh so badly to nurse an army of
hungry men, women and children. Show me, how can
I accomplish this erotic fantasy that is driving
me crazy. I desperately want to be a wet nurse
!"
I just
quickly put this page of info together which I
hope will answer many of your questions about
wet nursing. It may not provide you with the
hungry mouths to feed but it will give you
background as to why you ache to nurse. Please
forgive my typing errors.
I wish
I could snap my fingers for you to make it
happen. But I can't. It's really up to you
to do it. It may not be an army but you
can start with one person and grow from there.
Large breasted women "seem to have a very
powerful maternal instinct, especially as they
get past their 40s and especially if they never
nursed of nursed for short periods. Don't ask we
why ! Are the breasts going through some
unknown changes or is it the maternal instinct
that is re-awakening?
Before
you can take on any task you have to know the
how what where and when, a bit of history on the
subject. WET NURSING is no different. It
has a million year old history. One legendary
wet nurse was Judith Waterford who in 1831, on
her 81st birthday, could still produce
breastmilk. In her prime, she unfailing
produced two quarts of breastmilk a day year
after year. Some Wet nurses have and can
still produce as much as 6 and even 8 quarts per
day.
The highest
on medical records is nearly 2 gallons per day, a
Russian lady about 60 years ago. A
Japanese virgin of 21 years was producing 6
quarts daily for over 2 years. A virgin!!!!!!!
Her milk was somehow induced. Any woman
can lactate even virgins if the proper
stimulation is applied.
The
roots of donor milk banking reach back to
earlier times when children were either
breastfed by their mothers or breast fed by
friends, relatives or strangers - a practice
referred to as "wet nursing".
Evidence of the support for "wet
nursing" is present in the Code of
Hammurabi from 2250 BC where the attributes
needed for good wet nurses are described.
If a man gives his child to a nurse and the
child dies in her hands, but the nurse unbeknown
to the father and mother nurse another child,
then they shall convict her of having nursed
another child without the knowledge of the
father and mother and her breasts shall be cut
off.
In the
old Roman Empire wet nurses gathered in Rome in
the Via Lattaria (Milky Way) to sell their milk
fresh straight from the breast, in clay bottles,
or the buyer could milk it out him or herself.
Babies were brought to nurse as were baby
animals especially prized puppies. The wet nurses
positioned themselves in a spot were the wealthy
men walked by on the way to the baths. The
men would stop by and suckle their milky
breakfast, considered by many to be a milky
fountain of youth. The younger the wet
nurse, the more perfect the titties the more
powerful the boost. Unfortunately, little was
known about disease!
In
those early days, children were thought to
inherit the physical, mental and emotional
traits of their wet nurse through the breast
milk so selection of the nurse was felt to be
very important. In the 13th century, European
women made more money working as wet nurses than
any other occupation open to women. By
early in the twentieth century, awareness of the
possibility of disease transmission, difficulty
finding wet nurse particularly in North America
and an increasing number of artificial feeding
products unfortunately resulted in increasing
interest in artificial feeding.
Brazilian
mail carriers deliver more than just the mail.
Over six thousand mail carriers and firefighters
are part of a nationwide project to collect
human breast milk at the homes of lactating
women and bring it for pasteurization to the
country's hundred and fifty milk banks. The
Brazilian Ministry of Health implemented this
program in the early 1990s; today, Brazil has
the most effective milk bank network in the
world, a network which is one of several
projects designed to offer the benefits of
breastfeeding to women who cannot do so on their
own.
It is
commonly believed that lactation only occurs
following conception an birth, but this not
necessarily so. Certain species such as
elephants and foxes lactate and suckle young
without ever giving birth. For humans, continued
suckling over a period of time is the only
requirement to stimulate milk production --
pregnancy is not necessary. Many women who have
breastfed can begin again by simply initiating
sucking (with either a baby or a pump). Women
who have never given birth, but wish to
breastfeed can do so by having their nipples
sucked on frequently with either a pump or a
child/adult nursing regularly.
Krantz
JZ, Kupper NS. reports that, Cross-nursing, or
the breast-feeding of an infant not one's own,
appears to be an increasingly popular, if not
well reported, practice. The physical and psychological
effects are not well documented, but may be
quite different from those of the
institutionalized wet-nursing of the past. Three
mothers who cross-nurse were interviewed; the
practice appears to have had no ill effect on
them or their infants. Cross-nursing is a
logical and practical extension of the
resurgence of breast-feeding and may, in turn,
increase the incidence of breast-feeding by
making it more attractive to employed mothers.
Before the practice can be properly evaluated,
however, more data are needed, particularly with
regard to possible physical reactions in the
infants. In the meantime, pediatricians should
be aware that their breast-fed patients may be
participating in a cross-nursing situation, and
suggest prudent considerations.
Here
is a brief writeup through which I will try to
get you onto your learning curve.
This
is a book I highly recommend for those
interested in learning more about wet nursing in
America. But don't forget the world is
much bigger than just America! (If you go to
this site you will find a garden of other books
that will also teach you a lot about
breastfeeding.)
http://www.kellymom.com/writings/bf-history.html
A
Social History of Wet Nursing in America: From
Breast to Bottle. - book reviews
By Janet
Golden (New York: Cambridge University Press,
1996. xii plus 215pp. $54.95).
The
structure of wet nursing that prevailed in the
nineteenth century established a hierarchy among
wet nurses, as well as a two-tiered system of
infant care. The highest ranking wet nurses, in
terms of pay, were unmarried mothers who worked
for private families. The lowest were women
living in almshouses who suckled abandoned or
orphaned babies. Wet nurses who took into their
own homes the infants of working-class mothers
(including other wet nurses) stood in between.
Doctors
did not gain control over the organization of
wet nursing until the end of the nineteenth
century. Even then, Golden notes, "inherent
moral and managerial problems (p. 129)"
meant that wet nursing could never be fully
medicalized; wet nurses were judged by the
standards of domestic service as much as
medicine. Employers worried about the impact of
disease, diet, moral character, and heredity not
only on the quality of a nurse's milk, but on
relations within the household. As
bottle-feeding became safer, the inefficiency
and risk of a wet nurse seemed to contrast with
the more convenient and scientific alternative
of artificial feeding. By the early
twentieth century, families hired wet nurses
only as a last resort, after formula feeding had
failed. Something that should be mentioned is
that in order for many women to hire themselves
out as wet nurses they had to do something about
their own child. Usually infanticide was the
answer. Occasionally some smart wet nurses
managed to kill the baby they were hired to
nurse and switch it with their own.
Therefore they actually nursed their flesh and
blood while the hapless other child was
murdered.
Wet
nursing all but disappeared by the mid-twentieth
century, as breast milk was pumped, bottled, and
sold as a commodity. The bottling of human milk
increased the physical and psychological
distance between producer and consumer
(especially since milk banks pool the milk of a
number of women), and toppled the association
between milk quality and the personal
characteristics of the nurse. NOTE: BREAST
MILK WAS BOTTLED AND SOLD ! In Germany it
was sold in health food stores for years.
Bottled
breast milk remains a necessity for a small
number of (mostly premature) infants, yet today
most breast milk (like blood) is donated, not
sold. Now that breast-feeding is popular among
the middle class, it is considered immoral to
sell mother's milk to save the life of a child.
A
Social History of Wet Nursing in America raises
many questions for future research, particularly
on the regional and ethnic/cultural variations
in wet-nursing practices and policies. This
pathbreaking book is a must-read for historians
of medicine, the family, and women's work.
Molly
Ladd-Taylor York University
********************************************8
Two
distinct groups paid for wet nurses' service in
the United States at the end of the nineteenth
and well into the twentieth centuries.
Physicians hired them both to suckle babies
living without their mothers in foundling homes
and to supply human milk to sick babies in
hospitals. Well-to-do families also hired them -
usually via the family doctor - as live-in
servants when a mother would not or could not
breastfeed. Although there was no question that
the human milk provided by wet nurses not only
benefited babies but in many instances saved
their lives, employers constantly weighed the
troublesome aspects of housing a wet nurse
against a baby's need for her milk. As one
Chicago pediatrician warned, if the infant in
question was healthy "the balance is not
always on the side of the wet nurse."
Another
good pieces can be read in;
Midwife
Health Visit Community Nurse. 1979
Aug;15(8):302-6. Related
Articles,
Links The rent breasts: a brief history of
wet-nursing.
Osborn
ML.
Selling
Mother's Milk : The Wet-Nursing
Business in France, by George Sussman
Milk,
Money and Madness, by Naomi Baumslag and Dia L.
Michels
It is an
invaluable guide to the culture and politics
surrounding breastfeeding.
*********************************************
Most of
this is based on history. Then we read about wet
nursing as it is now;
Wet-nursing
makes a comeback in Hollywood
By Martin
Patience
2004-02-18
A
Beverly Hills, Calif., company has revived the
obsolete practice of wet-nursing, renting out
professional sucklers to mothers who are unable
to breast-feed their children
themselves--sometimes because of implants.
The
Web site for Certified Household Staffing
appears like a throwback to Victorian times,
when the moneyed classes hired teams of
servants. The site sports images of
butlers with bow ties, nannies in black and
white uniforms and gamekeepers dressed in
tweeds. But the agency offers another
service associated with times long past: wet
nurses.
Robert
Feinstock, 65, the owner of the Beverly Hills,
Calif., company, believes his business is one of
the few in the United States that offers wet
nurses, or women who suckle other peoples'
children. He says he provides a needed
service to mothers who want their children to
thrive on breast milk but for whatever reason
are unable to perform the task themselves.
http://www.jrn.columbia.edu/studentwork/cns/2004-03-15/525.asp
(I hope
this web site is still active)
Based
on the success of this company, women aching to
become wet nurses may have a big paid future
ahead of them.
********************************************************
HERE IS
AN OLDER WRITEUP I DID A YEAR OR TWO AGO
Here
is a brief on wetnursing that I'm researching.
It was in places like these that some women
nursed several babies daily. Some due to
infections that were around chose to be milked
by hand several times daily. You may find this
short piece interesting.
Each
year in Europe in the centuries of the modern
period, many tens of thousands of babies were
abandoned and made their way into the highly
developed system of foundling homes. Torn away
from their mothers, the infants faced difficult
odds in surviving in a world where artificial
feeding generally meant death. Their only
real hope of living to see their first birthday
was to find a woman able to nurse them and
willing to put them to her breast. And so
it was that wherever there were foundling homes,
from Portugal to Russia, Italy to Ireland,
foundling home officials devoted much of their
energies to recruiting lactating women to nurse
their little wards.
In
most places at most times, the foundling homes
sponsored a dual system of wetnursing, one based
inside the foundling home itself and one outside
it. The goal almost everywhere was to place the
infant with a lactating woman in the woman's own
home, typically in the countryside. The only
alternative was to keep the children in the
foundling home, but this was deemed undesirable
for a variety of reasons. First of all, it was
impractical. In foundling homes such as Paris,
Lisbon, Madrid, Vienna, Milan, or Florence,
where thousands of babies were abandoned each
year, the prospect of keeping them all in the
foundling homes was unrealistic. Finding
lactating women willing to serve as internal
wetnurses to multiple babies was always
difficult, and indeed, expedients were sometimes
relied upon of forcing unwed mothers to serve
periods of servitude as internal wetnurses.
Officials also recognized that hygienic
conditions in the foundling homes were inferior
to those outside; the large number of babies
sharing a limited number of wetnurses quickly
passed diseases around. Moreover,
officials complained that the poor women who
could be induced into wetnurse service in the
foundling homes lacked the robust and healthy
condition necessary to insure adequate nutrition
for the infants.
As a
result, efforts were made to find women willing
to take the abandoned babies to their homes and
able to nurse them. In order to keep the
child alive until such placement could occur, a
limited number of wetnurses were lodged in the
foundling home itself, often nursing two or more
infants at a time.
The
consequences of not being able to place the
infants with external wetnurses can be seen from
those cases where few such placements were made.
A dramatic example comes from Naples, one of
Europe's largest foundling homes in the modern
period, yet one which often lacked the financial
resources (or political resolve) to pay for what
would have been a massive system of foster child
placement. Between 1801 and 1840, 81,758
children were left at the Naples foundling home;
of these 81% died before reaching their first
birthday. Even in the best of cases,
however, keeping the abandoned children alive
was a desperate struggle, and typically the
foundlings suffered an infant mortality rate
twice as high as the already high rate found
among the rest of
the
population.
Well
aware that the survival of the foundlings was
linked to their ability to place the children
quickly with women in their own homes, foundling
home officials devoted a great deal of their
efforts and a significant part of their large
budget to recruiting external wetnurses. The
incentive provided was a monthly wage that the
foundling home paid such women. The wage
attracted women from poorer rural households
where the extra money - especially in its
regularity and its cash form - was most welcome.
Foundling homes continued to pay the women to
keep the child even after the period of
wetnursing (typically 12 months) was completed,
although the monthly payments declined after the
child was weaned.
Women
from the countryside were almost everywhere
preferred over city women, for rural communities
were regarded as healthier for children and life
there less corrupt than the city. Although
desperate to attract such women, foundling home
officials were also concerned that any woman who
asked to take in a child be closely examined to
make sure that she would be suitable. In the
foundling homes of Italy (referred to as ospizi),
women needed to bring a variety of documentation
with them, including a certificate of good moral
standing provided by their parish priest, and
either a death certificate of their most
recently born child (indicating their
lactational status) or their most recent child's
birth certificate indicating that the child was
old enough to be weaned (foundling homes frowned
on women nursing a foundling in addition to
their own child, fearing that former would
suffer). Finally, a foundling home physician
performed a physical examination of the woman,
both to ensure her general health and
nutritional status, and to specifically examine
the quantity and quality of her milk.
For
protection from the many diseases that were
present, many women would rather be milked
several times daily than to put infected babies
to their breasts. This is where local goat
farmers were hired to use their experience to
milk these women. In order to be accepted as a
milker, the women were picked based on breast
and nipple size. A woman with plenty of
milk yet with small nipples was turned down by
the milkers. Milkings were done as often as 4
times per day depending on availability of the
number of milkers men or women. Some women
milked themselves or were milked by their
husbands then took the milk to the foundling
homes.
Remember,
these women were paid with much needed cash.
So many households had mothers and daughters
employed as milk givers.
Did
you know that the wetnurses in history commanded
a lot of power in the household? They were
given the best rooms, clothes, and food along
with helpers. The helpers made sure that
the wet nurse obeyed the rules, they helped care
for, milk and massage the wetnurses titties. The
helpers were to make sure the milk was always
fresh, therefore they had to milk or suckle the
titties dry after each feeding. The
breasts were washed and cared for like babies
themselves.
On occasions,
more than the baby the helper and the man of the
house fed on those busy tits. One wet
nurse fed the guest baby, the man of the house,
the gardener, the butler and whoever happened to
get a hold of her titties. It was not
unusual for these women to produce several
quarts daily. One is said to have nursed 7
babies for over 3 months. Talk about big
busy titties!
In the
French , Italian and German Foundling homes most
wetnurses were able to nurse at least 2 or 3
babies regularly. A doctor was on hand at
all times to treat cracked nipples, torn
areolas, mastitis and to milk the tits as
needed. I read a brief about a Dutch
doctor 23 years old who supervised some 60 young
wetnurses. I dare to guess his dick must have
been in need of milking a few times
daily!!!!!!!!!!
************************************************************************
I'd
be pleased to hear from any readers input or
answer any questions.
Sal
Lactation
Consultant, Researcher, Herbalist,
Nutritionist
naturalchoiceee@yahoo.com
©
2000-2007.
All Rights
Reserved.
Article
reprinted with permission by the author.
Thank you Sal!
NOTE:
DO NOT replicate this article without the author's
prior permission.
HOME
Land
of Milk and Honey © 2007
All rights reserved.
|